Pathways

On the eve of embarking on a new job I find myself thinking about the path that has gotten me to where I am now. Although I am a planner, I never planned what my careers would be or what I would "do." Honestly, I never thought I would live to be a real adult (whatever that means) and I never saw myself getting older.... I'm sure I'll be saying the same thing at 70.

I knew at a young age I enjoyed being around people and in college I gravitated towards the social sciences. After graduating, I realized I really needed to find a job. Job searching wasn't something I was too worried about. By the time I graduated I have seen many doors open in my life right when I needed them to. I knew I wanted to end up in China for at least a year and that was always at the back of my mind. In the mean time, an art teacher position opened up at a small school close to Atlanta.

No formal art or teacher training? No problem. My heart knew I could do it and I did. And did it well and I saw that teaching was something I could do for a while. It was everything I was good at. Planning lessons, researching topics, interacting with people, a little acting, a little mystery, anything to keep the kids intrigued and wanting to learn more. At the right time again, China opened up and I walked through the door for a year. It was amazing and I cherish my time there greatly.

I came back from China with the desire to settle down a bit. To maybe get married, maybe have a family? So I did. It was easy and I didn't think too much about it. Other teaching jobs opened up here in Nashville and I took them. I thought about the future but stopped dreaming. I wished for things but reality was not matching up.

This year of 2015 has turned out to be one that took me back to Square One. Back to searching for what I really wanted to do. Public education wrecked me desire to teach for a long time (still can't stomach the idea of going back) and what does one do who has many years of experience and a degree in a field they can't think about playing on again?

I do not have the desire to teach abroad right now. I do have the desire to be here. Maybe not forever, but for a while longer. There are still things that need to happen here. That I know.

I knew my current job had to go. The pay was pitiful and the work that used to be enjoyable was now stifling. I wasn't being use to my full capacity and my lead had misogynist tendencies so I searched for something new. I poked around to see what was out there. I ran across a posting and lightheartedly applied: Happiness Office Manager. Hell yes, I could do that. The door opened again and I walked gracefully through. It is everything I'm good at: planning outings, planning meals, making sure everyone has what is needed, organizing, logistics. It's for a company that is new and wants to succeed. It's a place I can help build a foundation with and maybe get some marketing experience in as well.

On this eve I am excited about the possibilities and where the opportunities will take me. I feel like I am out of the rut, the veil is lifted, the light is starting to shine again. I have started to think more and to dream a little.

And in my mind's eye I always glance West.
And I see the ocean below, the falling twilight sky meeting the pregnant descending sun.
The wind picks up and the taste of salt becomes acute as we race towards the light.
The world is ours.
The future is bright.
The future is indestructible.
We are hopeful for the future.
Don't try to hold us for we shift like the sand we left at the safety of the shore.
Today we breathe.
Today we live.
And tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow.
And tomorrow will take care of itself.

I am happy again. And hopeful.